Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Project "Illumination"


Talk about a long break from blog updates....  almost nothing for the entire month of February.  Time to get back to it.


So with the conclusion of project "Drafty", which was a huge success, it is time to move onto Project "illumination".  Project illumination is focused on installing new under cabinet lights in our kitchen.  I installed some LED strips over a year ago, but sadly underestimated the amount of light it would produce.  Needless to say, it wasn't enough to make much of a difference in terms of functionality.

The trick with this though is that I want something that will not cost an obscene amount of money but will increase the amount of illumination on the kitchen counters.  Our kitchen does not receive much natural light, especially under the cabinets - lots of shadows and poorly lit areas.

The first step was to get a sense of what I wanted to accomplish.

Criteria 1:  
I want LEDs.  LEDs pull very little wattage, they do note generate a lot of heat and the bulbs will last for a really long time.  So that is definitely the option I want.

Criteria 2:
The LED strips would be best suited if I could adjust the length of the strips.  This can be accomplished with LED strip lights.  These are flexible strands of LEDs that are affixed together along a ribbon that has points where the ribbon can be cut to form smaller LED strips.  The best part is that these ribbons have an adhesive backing, so very little hardware is needed to install the strips - just peel and stick.



My shopping list consisted of:

 - One 5 Meter White LED Strip
 - One Transformer (more on this later)
 - A roll of 12-24 gauge wire (black/red)

I did my shopping for the LEDs online at Amazon.  Quite a hefty selection depending on what you want.  I opted for:


 Flexible Light Strip 300 SMD White LED Ribbon 5 Meter or 16 Feet By Ledwholesalers, 2026wh
 
The ribbon comes in a 5 meter length for a whopping $13.88.  The trick will be to see how workable it is with the cut points.  The ribbon is fashioned in such a way that it can be cut to smaller lengths.  Here is an example of a cut point.  You con see where the positive and negative are notated on the ribbon with the small contact points for solder. 



 Another key thing is the ensure that the ribbon is being properly powered.  Ever tried plugging in a device with the wrong plug and it didn't work?  In the US, most wall outlets put out 110 volts of electricity, but the LED ribbon only requires 12 volts.  Without getting too technical, it is important to have the transformer to power the LED ribbon because the voltage needs to be converted from AC to DC wattage and the ribbon requires a component to control and regulate the voltage being transmitted.  I found this one on Amazon for $14.25. 

Ledwholesalers 30 Watt LED Power Suppply Driver Transformer 120 to 12 Volt DC Output, 32074

Ledwholesalers 30 Watt LED Power Suppply Driver Transformer 120 to 12 Volt DC Output, 3207


Other items I still need to procure include 12 gauge red/black wire, some solder (I already have a soldering iron) and I will probably keep some electrical tape nearby.  

My initial plan will be to run 2-3 strips of ribbon under each cabinet spaced a few inches apart allowing for better light coverage across the countertop.  I am aiming to duplicate a design similar to this image:

   

 So now I simply wait until the materials arrive in the next week or so.  Then I can check back on my progress. 

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Letter to Bean


Dear Bean,

 It's difficult to accept that you are now two years old.  It seems only yesterday that you were merely a thought of a future life as a family of three for your mother and me.  From a dream to new born to now a toddler....you just keep growing and bringing joy to our lives.  I hope some day you understand how much love your mother and I have for you and how very precious you are to us.  Watching you learn and experience life around you for the first time has been inspiring.



As you will experience in life as you grow older, finding inspiration will be a struggle in life.  Inspiration to push yourself harder.  Motivation to make sacrifices hoping that the light at the end of the tunnel is within reach.  Finding the psychological drive to dig deeper into something you don't understand to gain better comprehension.  To find the courage to admit when you're wrong.  To forget your pride and ask for help.           




Well I have found my inspiration - it is you and your mother; our family.  I find myself wanting to be a better husband.  I want to be a better father.  I want to push myself to improve because I want to be an inspiration for you.  Like every parent, I want to provide you a childhood better than my own.  


I want to see you learn and grow and embrace the moment, live life to the fullest.  You're effortless love and boundless energy always wipe away any sadness and stress I may be holding onto.  And your smiles warm my heart.   


 I wish your mother and I could capture every little moment and cherish them forever.  I wish we could slow down time or make a moment last a lifetime.  Every day you give us a glimmer of the beauty of life and I am thankful for that. 


I hope I can work hard enough and provide you with enough opportunity to have a wonderful childhood.  I pray that the memories we make as a family continue to bring joy to our lives for years to come.  I hope your smiles and giggles continue for a lifetime.      



I hope you and I will always be friends.  I hope I can always keep your trust.  I hope I can inspire you.  I hope you know I will always be proud of you, no matter what. 




So here is to my little two year old.  I'm sad to see the days slip away from us.  It makes each day precious, but I am so inspired and proud to watch you grow.  You may never realize how in awe I am by you and how much I truly love you.















Even though I am a grown man, my parents always remind me that I am still their little boy.  Now I understand.  Although you will one day be a little boy, a teenager and eventually grow into a man, I will always remember you from the first time we met - as the small infant I once held.

 

    
With love, now and always,

Dad











Monday, January 21, 2013

Operation "Prepared for anything" - Part 2

So the first goal with prepping the family for emergencies was to prep a family first aid kit.  As my family consists of a 2-year-old, it was important to ensure the medicine was being stored in a safe location out if his reach.  We opted to split our stock into two places:  1) a long term storage for the seldom needed medication and 2) a easy to grab first aid kit with more emergency applications. 


We hit up the local target and picked up two plastic bins with locking lids.  We also opted for handles on top, making it easier to transport with one hand.  One was considerably larger than the other for the bulk of the medication.  The second was smaller as the easily transportable first aid kit.


Here they are pictured next to each other (yes, that is a heart themed table cloth for Valentine's Day) I used the big one to transport all the medication from the cabinet drawer in our bathroom to the kitchen table for sorting.  I rather liked the smaller one because it is actually comprised of three stack-able sections that lock together.  I could then do some segregation based on type of First Aid, which I will get into later.
  

The first thing i did was segregate all the medication.  I created several piles including:

 - Bean's medication 
 - Cold and flue season medication
 - Prescription medication
 - First aid items (e.g. - band aids, antiseptic wipes, Neosporin creams, etc.)


 


Once segregated, I began filling up the First Aid kit with various essentials.  Here is a picture of Bean's section of the kit.  All his children's medication is here along with his thermometer, suction bulb and dosing chart.  Note - I put the dosing chart in a Ziploc bag.  The last thing I want is for one of the medicine bottles to leak all over the dosing chart.  I also was sure to include the necessary measuring tools (the syringes are pictured, I added the tablespoon measures later).   


The other sections I included things like ointments, band-aids, antiseptic wipes, surgical tape, etc.  I then could click all the sections together and the final product looked like this:



The rest of the medication I segregated using gallon sized Ziploc bags to keep the larger bin a little more organized.  This is what we ended up with once finished.   


The final step was to put the First Aid kit where it would be readily available for adults, but away from Bean.  We opted for the cabinet under the sink in one of our bathrooms that had a child lock on it.  The bulk medication went on an upper shelf in our closet, well out of Bean's reach. 

With this first phase done, now it is time to move onto more emergency planning in the home.  Things I want to consider first is natural disaster: what to do in case of a fire, an earthquake, a severe storm, a tornado, etc. 

The core things I am going to do:

1) Take inventory of what important documents we have and consolidate them into a safe, portable case.  This is going to include things like Social Security Cards, Passports, Titles for our cars, bank account information, health insurance information, etc.  I will expand on this list in the next post.

2) Focus on the internal preparedness for the various natural disasters by prepping a home emergency kit.  This kit will need to include blankets, clothes, food, water, flashlights, emergency radio, cash, blankets, clothes, tools (for shutting off utilities, if necessary), work gloves (leather), matches, a utility knife, can opener, etc.  As with number 1, I will expand on this list with the next post. 



Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Operation "Prepared for anything" - Part 1

The first project of the year, Operation "Drafty" is complete.  Time to move onto the next major project - Operation "Prepared for anything".  I find now that I have a home and a family, I have that much more reason to be prepared for anything that may happen.  My wife and I are both adults, so it's easier for us to be a little less prepared because we are able to be more flexible and agile to handle emergency situations and can more easily adapt.  But my 2 year old?  Bean is too young to understand a disaster.  He is too young to know what to do.  He's too young to understand food rationing.  He's too young to know to stay away from a window during a bad storm. 

There have been some pretty nasty natural disasters in the past decade including snow storms, ice storms, hurricanes, tornadoes, floods tsunamis and earthquakes.  I started asking myself questions like:

If power is out and no stores can accept credit cards and ATMs aren't working, do we have cash to purchase food from the store?

If the water was shut off, would we have drinking water for at least 3 days?

If we had to vacate our home, do we have necessity emergency bags packed?

If the banking systems crashed, do we have records of all our financials and assets to recover our assets?


I started doing some research on the FEMA website  (Federal Emergency Management Agency) to get a sense of how ill prepared my family was in the event of an emergency.  Long story short - very ill prepared. 

There are steps.  I will provide the highlights and then dig into the details. 

1) Be informed
2) Make a plan
3) Build a kit
4) Maintain readiness


So let's start at the beginning - Be Informed.  This breaks down to knowing and understanding the types of disasters that could occur and identifying which ones could impact you and your family base don where you reside.  Obviously if you live in South Dakota, the need to be prepared for a Tsunami is slim to none.  The FEMA website walks through several major types of disasters including:

 - Natural Disasters (droughts, hurricanes, tornadoes, etc)
 - Pandemics
 - Home Fires
 - Technological & Accidental hazards  (blackouts, Hazardous Materials incidents, etc.)
 - Terrorist Hazards (Biological, chemical, cyber, etc)

And they also cover Options for Protection and awareness of Recovery from a Disaster.  A lot of scary stuff can happen - it's a bit frightening reading through the disasters that can occur; especially once you start thinking about how it could impact your family's livelihood.

The best thing to do here is to read through the different types of disasters and really consider what could happen in your area.  Some natural disasters are very unlikely to occur based on location as previously mentioned.


The second step is Make a Plan.  This gets a bit crazy, but here is the simple breakdown of the planning.  First, think about the locations you are most likely to encounter an emergency situation:

1) The home
2) The car
3) The office (at your work)

(A fourth item to consider is the school/day care emergency plan for your kids - you should be aware of what it is and ensure you've accounted for it in your planning)
 
Now let's dig a little deeper:

1) The home should have:
          a) Reaction plans for various disasters
          b) Disaster kit (prep for a minimum of 72 hours)
          c) First Aid kit (check out the Red Cross for recommended contents of the home kit)
          d) A "Go bag" for each family member in the event of evacuation (prep for a min of 72 hours)

2) The car should have:
         a) a disaster kit (prep for 24-48 hours)

3) The office should have:
        a) a "Go Bag" disaster kit



Basically being prepared is going to take a lot of leg work.  The first thing I am going to tackle is the First Aid kit for the home.  (Baby steps, right?)  Currently all our medicine and first aid related stuff is in a drawer in our bathroom.  To make matters worse, it is within accessibility range of Bean...and he gets into everything.  So I talked to the wife and we purchased two plastic bins.  One is smaller with little compartments and the other is much larger. 

The plan is to make the smaller bin a tote with more emergency related items - band aids, antiseptic wipes, aspirin, tylenol, etc.  As bean gets older, I am sure we will have our fair share of skinned knees, splinters and bruises and bumps.  The First Aid Kit will be easily accessible and organized to accommodate all the little stuff we may need for a quick response to an incident.

Bean with "Boo Boo Bunny" after a fall

The rest of the medicine we only need seasonally or rarely (cold medicine, allergy medicine, etc.) will all go in the big tote and will be packed away on one of the higher shelves in our closet.  We can pull it out when needed, but it would only be on those rare occasions we get sick.

This is the plan:
 1)  Take inventory of all the medication / First Aid stuff we have
 2)  Begin constructing the First Aid tote.  Here are the recommended items from the Red Cross:
  • 2 absorbent compress dressings (5 x 9 inches)
  • 25 adhesive bandages (assorted sizes)
  • 1 adhesive cloth tape (10 yards x 1 inch)
  • 5 antibiotic ointment packets (approximately 1 gram)
  • 5 antiseptic wipe packets
  • 2 packets of aspirin (81 mg each)
  • 1 blanket (space blanket)
  • 1 breathing barrier (with one-way valve)
  • 1 instant cold compress
  • 2 pair of nonlatex gloves (size: large)
  • 2 hydrocortisone ointment packets (approximately 1 gram each)
  • Scissors
  • 1 roller bandage (3 inches wide)
  • 1 roller bandage (4 inches wide)
  • 5 sterile gauze pads (3 x 3 inches)
  • 5 sterile gauze pads (4 x 4 inches)
  • Oral thermometer (non-mercury/nonglass)
  • 2 triangular bandages
  • Tweezers
  • First aid instruction booklet
  Additionally, we will need to consider any prescription medication, emergency phone numbers and medical insurance details.  Also, I want to think of an efficiency standpoint - what are some of the items that we may need from time to time?  Here are some of the items that initially came to mind:

  • Children's Tylenol for Bean
  • Adult Tylenol/Ibuprofen/Advil
  • Antacids (Tums, Rolaids, Pepto Bismal, etc.)
  • Eye dropper
  • Index cards with family member's medical info (allergies, dosing instructions, etc.)
     
 The goal for the next few days is to sort out the medication into one of the two bins.  Hopefully I'll be checking back in by next week with some good progress. 
  
 

Monday, January 14, 2013

Operation "Drafty" - Felt Fireplace Cover

So this is a continuation of the blog post Great Things From Small Beginnings...
for what I titled "Operation Drafty".  We have a fireplace in our Family Room and even with the damper closed, there is still quite a cold draft that leaks in, especially during the cold months.


So the wife and I wanted to create some kind of cover that could go over the fireplace when not in use to help block the cold air from coming in and I came up with an idea to incorporate felt as the covering material so it would double as a felt bard with which Bean could play.  Design was fairly simple: flat piece of wood, some kind of filling, felt cover and then some handles on the sides.
Material included:

One 4'x'4' 1/2" particle board - $9.79
36 square feet of carpet padding - $9.00
Two drawer handles - $4.58 ($2.29 each)
1.5 yards of black felt - $4.05 (wife had a 50% off coupon / would have been $8.10)

Total expense:  $27.42


Step 1 was to cut the wood to size.  This was harder than it sounds because the stones around the fireplace are not all even.  So the distance across the fireplace opening ranged from 35.5" - 37".  So I had to cut large, dry fit it, then cut some more.  I don't have fancy power tools like table saws, so I had to rig a guide for cutting straight lines.  I used a straight piece of lumber and clamped it to the wood I was cutting to function as a guide for my circular saw.  


Once the wood was cut to size, I encountered my first unplanned challenge.  The fireplace has glass doors with handles at the bottom that stick out about 1.5" causing the wood cover to stick out at the bottom.  So now I had to make cutouts in the wood to accommodate the fireplace glass door handles.  I used my carpenters square to transfer the location on the wood and then proceeded to drill some holes inside the lines and then cut the pieces out with a hand saw.  I used my Dremel tool to sand it down and smooth out the rough spots.

 
 
 
The next part was a bit rough and required the wife and I to work together.  we laid out the carpet padding first with the cut wood on top.  We folded one side up and stapled it down.  We then moved to the opposite side, pulling the padding tight and stapling.  Don't pull too hard or the padding will simply tear apart - trust me.

Once the padding was on tight, we moved on to putting on the felt.  But before we could do this, we realized we had another issue.  I had drilled the holes for the hardware that would be installed last, but hadn't considered that the felt and padding would cover the holes completely.  So we took some basic measurements (measured from the bottom up and marked the points on the measuring tape and then also measured in from the sides (basic x and y axis points).  Once we had the measurements for the handle holes, we moved on to attaching the felt.  Same process of pulling tight and stapling one side at a time.  We always worked opposite to opposite site, allowing us to pull it tight evenly across.
When it was time to locate the holes for the hardware, I gave myself a little pat on the back for this idea.  I got a big needle from the wife's sewing kit.  I measured out approximately where the holes should be and was able to poke around with the needle until I located the holes.  It worked really well without causing any damage to the felt or the padding.  I could then poke the needle through the hole and swirl it around to help make a big enough hole to accommodate the screw for the handles.

Once I fished the screws through, I added a washer on the backside to increase the surface area of the head of the screw.  Without this, there is a risk that the head of the crew could have ripped through the felt and/or the padding.  Increasing the surface area of the head expands the downward pressure of the head of the screw as it is tightened as to reduce the probability of tearing through the fabrics.


When it came to the moment of truth, I failed...miserably.  Remember how I said the bricks around the fireplace opening were uneven?  Well, once I added the padding and the felt, I came in at about .25" too tall; it didn't fit.  So I spent about a half hour pulling out all the staples along the top portion of board, peeled back the felt and the padding and proceeded to cut off about 1/2".  I then peeled the padding and felt back up and stapled back down.  Took a lot of adjusting and a lot of patience, but we nailed it.




The final fit was pretty good - still had some gaps on the sides and top, but that was to be expected.  Ultimately, it serves it's purpose well and is doing a great job at blocking the draft from the fireplace.  Now the wife and I just need to take the old felt remnants from her Arts & Crafts box and make some fun felt designs to put on the board.

Operation "Drafty" concluded as a success of one Sunday morning/afternoon and about $30 in materials.

Here is a better quality before and after photo of the fireplace cover.





I think it is also important to note two other minor projects completed this weekend.  First, we installed a lock on the door leading to our garage to keep Bean from arbitrarily going out there since he can open the door now on his own.


       

Second little project was installing some under cabinet lights on Bean's play kitchen.  Yes I said his play kitchen.  The corner he plays in doesn't get a lot of light, so the wife and I picked up a little two pack of LED click lights.  These bad boys came with double sided adhesive included and turn on/off with a click button that Bean can operate.  Total expense - $5 (plus batteries).



Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Budget, Budget, Budget.......

Well as a nation, we have temporarily avoided the national Fiscal Cliff.  But it clearly seems as a nation we are spreading ourselves way too thin.  I'm no politician and I don't consider myself among the elitists of knowledge, but I do know that you don't make a budget to spend more than you will make. 

Like every other American, my household is suffering the woes of no pay raises in 2013, an increase in our taxes and an increase in the cost for health benefits (with a decrease in services, of course).  So now it is time to step back and assess our income, understand where we spend money and work out a budget.  But nobody like budgeting - it's so difficult and cumbersome and depressing.  But it doesn't have to be.  This is by far the easiest budget you will ever do.      

Perhaps before we talk about budgets, we should discuss the Fiscal Cliff situation?  Perhaps you are still trying to understand what the Fiscal Cliff really is and how to understand it.  There are several diagrams and graphs floating around the web to try and define the Fiscal Cliff in more pedestrian terms.  Here are two I've seen that I think sum it up fairly well: 










But perhaps these diagrams are still a bit complex to understand with the GDP and percentages of income tax increases and the billions and trillions of dollars.  To make it even more simple, this explanation has been popping up all over the Internet as well and breaks down the Fiscal Cliff dilemma very well in a way that most anyone can understand:


In the most simplistic terms, we are spending more than we make and we have been for years putting more and more expenses on our national "credit card".  But every credit card has a limit and we are on the verge of hitting ours.  Had we "gone over the cliff", the average middle class family could have expected to see a $200-$3500 tax increase annually with multiple economic impacts including cuts with unemployment and Medicaid and Medicare.  Basically it would have sent the US into a recession which was estimated to send unemployment near 10% (if not higher) with a multitude of economic and societal impacts. 


Considering the potential financial dangers, it makes one think hard about financial security to provide not only for one's self but also one's family.  I know that is why my wife and I put our heads together to try to proactively and aggressively control our money and our "exposure points". 

First, lets talk about budgets.  My wife and I can't budget in the traditional sense for crap.  We can't track every dollar and we can't balance every expense into 50 different categories.  My guess is that we fall into the same category as everyone else.  So here is the basic plan we used to put a workable plan into place that didn't require continual maintenance. 

The average household thinks of a budget this way:

1. First, I pay my bills
2. Second, I have necessary needs (food, gas for my car, shoes, etc)
3. Third, I need some "fun money", otherwise, I will go crazy
4. Fourth, I'll save whatever is left over

This thought process is all backwards.  The first priority should be stability for your family financially and then everything else.  This is the way you should think:

1. I get paid first
2. Bills and essentials get paid second
3. everything else is gravy 


The way I think about it is 15-60-25.  Basically 15% goes to me (aka - the family), 60% goes to bills and essentials and 25% is gravy.  The best part about this concept is that you can calculate a dollar amount for each paycheck you receive (this is especially easy if you have a fairly consistent paycheck, which most people do).  And with the options with electronic banking, it is easy to establish multiple savings accounts or checking accounts and setting up automatic account transfers.

Here is an example:  Lets say we make $400 a week, and we get paid every Friday.  Do some quick math and I know my budget breakdown should be:

Weekly:
1. $60
2. $240
3. $100

Monthly (estimate 4 weeks)
1. $240
2. $960
3. $400

Annually (52 weeks)
1. $3,120
2. $12,480
3. $5,200

Obviously these numbers are not set in stone; the percentages can be adjusted based on the situation and needs.  The key thing here is the determine what you want (or need) in your savings.  What will you need 3 months from now?  1 year from now?  5 years from now?  The wife and I actually set up 5 separate savings accounts: 1) Bean's college, 2) wife's retirement, 3) house repair fund - anticipating a new roof in about 5 years, 4) Car fund - for new car purchases and 5) a general savings account. 

The trick is to think about your savings accounts as "non-negotiable".  If you want to save $300 a month for a new car, then that number is non-negotiable.  Everything else can be changed.  Rent too high?  Shop around for a new apartment.  High electric bill?  reduce your electronics or change our lift fixtures for low wattage bulbs or turn down/up the thermostat.  Phone bill too high?  Reduce your minutes or data package.  Grocery bill too high?  Shop sales or buy non-name brand.  Need new shoes?  Shop around for sales or use coupons.  The point is that every bill you have can be manipulated in some way, shape or form.  But your savings CANNOT and SHOULD NOT be negotiable.      


Once you have your saving targets and goals established, set up automatic transfers.  If necessary, open new savings accounts and/or checking accounts with your back (this can often times be done online - very, very simple).  Then just set the parameters for the reoccurring transfers into the appropriate accounts on the routine basis you desire.  As an example, I have some accounts that transfer weekly and some that occur monthly; each one functions with an automatic account transfer on specific days of the week/month.  It took a little time to set up, but now, without even thinking about it or doing anything, money is automatically being saved in specific accounts for specific purposes the wife and I had previously decided.  Typically I never even see the money - it drops into the savings account right after my paycheck clears.  EXTREMELY low maintenance.

Once the wife and I had our "budget" in place, it was a matter of determining what cuts we could make.  The trick here is to pick your battles - what are the "exposure points"?  I'm not a big advocate of cutting all the small things in life - I'd rather target the few things that I typically don't see that are bleeding money out of my pockets.  Things we considered and/or did:

1) Brown bag it - take a lunch to work.  Make large meals for dinner in the evening or on the weekends and make sure you have leftovers that you can grab and go with in the morning.  Even if you go for a $5 fast food meal each day 5 days a week, that's $25 a week totaling $100 a month and upwards of $1200 annually.  That's a pretty big exposure point!  (And most meals are not less than $5)

2) Look into your insurance policies - Changing your home owners insurance or car insurance could save you literally hundreds of dollars year over year.  The wife did this for us about a year ago and between our car insurance and home owner's insurance, we saved about $700 a year and got better coverage.   

3) Cable - There are a lot of options out there for streaming video over the Internet or there is good old antenna television.  HD antennas are not very expensive these days are are very simple to install.  We cut our cable TV saving us $60-$70 a month (estimated at upwards of $840 annually!).  Alternatively we use Netflix, HuluPlus and various free internet sites.  The nice thing about the online providers is that they are month to month and are very easy to simply cancel at any time.

4) Fight your taxes - Do your due diligence if you own property to appeal your property taxes if you feel they are too high.  If you live in a complex, be active in the home owners association to have some input on what annual assessments will be required year over year.  Living in one of the worst states in the US (ranked #47 out of 50 for worst run states according to the Wall Street Journal), magically our property assessment took a nose dive, yet our property taxes continued to increase.  We did the research to appeal the assessment on our property to try and lower our property taxes.   

5) Use coupons - I'm not advocating for extreme coupon-ing, but do look for discount prices and items on sale.  Build your weekly meal menu from the sales items.  And try to only shop once every week or bi-weekly.  Studies have shown that people that shop more frequently throughout the week are more prone to impulse buy.  Several stores are now incorporating a method of using your store account to track your coupons online, so you don't even have to bring the coupons with you to the store; they show up on your transaction as soon as the check-out attendant swipes your store card.   

6) Don't cut the little things - If you have lunch with the crew from work once a week, don't just arbitrarily cut that out (unless it really is burning a hole in your pocket).  If the price of lunch is minimal, then keep it.  The things listed above will get you big bang for your buck.  Denying yourself certain life pleasures just makes life a little more miserable.  Just be practical and selective of when/where you go and how much you spend.  Remember, we work to live not live to work - so live it up, just remain within your means.

7) Discount shopping - shop sales online and at the stores.  Need new clothes?  See what stores have sales going on.  Shopping for your little one?  Consider hitting up garage sales in the summer months on the weekend - great way to find clothes and toys for kids.  The wife has stocked Bean's closet with name brand clothing, which she typically can purchase for less than $1 per article of clothing (pants, shirts, jackets, etc.) 

8) If you use a credit card, get one with reward points - The wife and I purposely put expenses on our credit card and then pay off the balance at the end of the month.  The perk here is that each dollar spent on the card can earn reward points, which can be cashed in for merchandise or gift cards.  We are hoping that our reward points will be high enough that we can get cash back (or gift cards) to purchase supplies for our basement, which we are in the process of finishing.    

 


These are a few of the things the wife and I are doing.  The key thing here is that we are planning for our future.  We prep and plan to save money for the priorities we set and ensure that money is going into separate accounts automatically so it is easy to manage and control.  Then we adjust our lifestyle to live within our means.  Unlike the national budget, we do not anticipate to spend more money this year than we make.  And to avoid that potential risk in the future, we are ensuring we are stashing money away each month for future anticipated expenditures  (e.g. - Bean's college fund, which won't be necessary for another 16 years).  And even more importantly, the wife and I talk about it; we make sure we are on the same page with what is important.  We do these things not just for ourselves, but for our son and those that will come after him.  The biggest thing here is we as parents want to do our best to give our son a chance for a happy future.  My wife and I are going to do our best to ensure he has a happy, healthy life full of opportunities.  But as John F. Kennedy said, "Mothers all want their sons to grow up to be president but they don't want them to become politicians in the process."  So it will be important in coming years to include Bean in our family discussions about budgeting, how to do it, and why we need to do it.  Perhaps one day he can be part of the catalyst that instigates change for this country - never underestimate the power of a single moment.     

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Play Kitchen Remodel

Bean's big Christmas gift from Santa this year was the play kitchen from Ikea along with all the accessories (pots, pans, utensils, plates, bowls, cups and play food).  Here he is on Christmas morning playing with it for the first time.


In the first picture, Bean is discovering the play kitchen for the first time Christmas morning. He is so amazed, he barely knows where to begin!  In the second picture, Bean has found his groove (along with his chef hat and apron) and is diligently cooking up what appears to be some apples in a skillet. 

While the kitchen is definitely awesome and Bean loves it, it is causing a bit of a problem.  We are starting to get scuff marks on the wall behind the kitchen from where the spoons hang and bang against the wall (along with Bean hitting the wall with the pots and pans).  So the wife and I determined that Nate would need a back splash to 1) to protect our walls from unnecessary scuffs and 2) to make his kitchen 10 times more awesome. 

I started looking into inexpensive options and found a very simple solution.  We will install a piece of backer-board covered in wallpaper.  I want to find some wall paper that resembles tile, similar to this image I found:


This is a simple contact paper with what looks like square, green tiles.  Attach the wallpaper to the backer-board and then attach the backer-board to the kitchen.  The idea would be like this:

Step 1 would be to attach a tile-like wallpaper or contact paper to the backer-board in the appropriate size to cover the back of the play kitchen.











Step 2 is the final touch of adding the backer-board with the attached tiled wallpaper to the kitchen so the final results looks something like this.















I anticipate the overall project to be fairly inexpensive (depending on where I can source a small amount of contact paper or wall paper).  I'll do a little more research on this one and see what I can come up with on sourcing the materials.  But this project will need to wait until "Operation Drafty" is complete.